7 Ways to Fall in Love With Your Own Company Before the Year Ends
Glow from within ✨ Celebrate the season with joy, self-love, and a little sparkle 💖
The final two weeks of the year occupy a strange, beautiful limbo. The holiday rush begins to fade, work slows down, and the world seems to collectively exhale. While this season is often marketed towards couples and families, it is secretly the perfect time for solitude.
Being single during the holidays isn’t about "surviving" the season; it’s about thriving in it. It is an invitation to prioritize yourself unapologetically. Instead of filling the silence, embrace it. Use this time to recharge, reflect, and celebrate on your own terms. Here are seven solo activities to help you end your year feeling empowered and refreshed.
1. Take Yourself to the Lights
Who says you need a hand to hold to enjoy the magic of holiday lights? In fact, wandering through the Arboretum or the local holiday light festival solo can be even more enchanting. You can move at your own pace, linger at the displays you like best, and take photos without feeling rushed. Grab a hot cocoa, put on your favorite playlist or podcast, and soak in the festive atmosphere. It’s a sensory experience that feels surprisingly peaceful when done alone.
2. The Tourist in Your Own City Day
We often ignore the landmarks right in our backyard. Pick a museum, gallery, or historical site you’ve always meant to visit but haven't. On your own schedule, you can read every placard or breeze through entire exhibits as you please. Afterwards, treat yourself to lunch at a cafe you've been eyeing. There is a specific kind of confidence that comes from dining alone, so bring a book, or simply people-watch and enjoy your own company.
3. Host a Personal Wellness Retreat
Travel can be expensive and exhausting this time of year, so bring the retreat to you. Block off an entire evening or weekend day where you are unavailable to the world. Turn your phone off. Draw a bath with salts, do a face mask, or practice restorative yoga. The goal isn't just "grooming," it's about nervous system regulation. Use this time to physically decompress from the year's stress in the comfort of your own sanctuary.
4. The Dream & Scheme Vision Session
While everyone else is making vague resolutions, take yourself out for a serious strategy session. Go to a coffee shop with a notebook and a pen. Review your year: What worked? What didn’t? What brought you joy? Then, map out your vision for the next 12 months. This isn't about productivity; it's about designing a life you love. Your future is entirely yours to shape; lean into that freedom.
5. Master a New (Indoor) Skill
Is there something you’ve always wanted to try but never had the "time" for? Use these quiet weeks to dive in. Buy a watercolor set, try a complex baking recipe, or learn to knit. Doing something creative purely for the sake of fun, not for a side hustle or social media content, reconnects you with your inner child. Plus, the satisfaction of creating something with your own hands is a powerful mood booster.
6. A Solo Nature Reset
Winter landscapes have a stark, quiet beauty. Find a local trail and go for a hike, or simply walk through a nearby park. Being in nature lowers cortisol levels and provides a fresh perspective. Unlike walking with a friend, where conversation dominates, a solo walk allows your mind to wander and untangle complex thoughts. Breathe in the crisp air and ground yourself before the new year begins.
7. The Ultimate Cozy Movie Night
Prepare your favorite snacks and build a nest of blankets on the couch. Whether you want to binge-watch a reality show or a documentary, the choice is yours. There is a deep comfort in catering to your own whims. It’s a small luxury, but a meaningful one.
Ready. Set. Go.
As the year winds down, it’s important to make space for moments that bring joy and renewal. Whether you choose reflection through a walk, indulgence in a cozy movie night, or any other activity that nurtures your well-being, these small acts of self-care can have a profound impact. Prioritize yourself, cherish the quiet moments, and step into the new year feeling refreshed and ready for what’s to come. Here’s to making the most of these final days and starting the next chapter with intention and warmth.